Our husband (우리 남편)? Our wife (우리 아내)?

Our husband (우리 남편)? Our wife (우리 아내)?


The Korean language has a unique and versatile phrase ‘우리 [uri],’ which means ‘we/our’ in English. There are two things you should keep in mind when using this expression.

The first is that it’s used as both the pronoun ‘we’ and the possessive adjective ‘our.’


① We

우리가 했어요 [uriga hesseoyo]

We did it.

우리 [uri] we

가 [ga] (noun ending with a vowel +) subject marker

하다 [hada] to do

우리는 내일 떠나요. [urineun neil tteonayo]

We leave tomorrow.

우리 [uri] we

는 [neun] (noun ending with a vowel +) topic marker

내일 [neil] tomorrow

떠나다 [tteonada] to leave


② Our

우리 수업 [uri sueop]

our class

우리 [uri] our

수업 [sueop] class

우리 프로젝트 [uri peurojekteu]

our project

우리 [uri] our

프로젝트 [peurojekteu] project


The second thing is that it’s not always as all-inclusive as the English ‘we’—that is, it might not include the listeners, and it might not even be plural.

True, it doesn’t make sense in English to say ‘our home’ or ‘our school’ to someone that doesn’t have the same home or school as you.

You may find it strange that Koreans routinely say ‘우리[uri]’ to mean ‘my.’ The most common situation where you find this usage is when Koreans talk about their country and family.


Korean word Literal meaning Meaning
우리나라 [uri nara] our country Korea
우리 집 [uri jib] our home my/our home
우리 학교 [uri hakgyo] our school my/our school
우리 가족 [uri gajok] our family my/our family
우리 엄마 [uri eomma] our mother my/our mother
우리 아빠 [uri appa] our father my/our father
우리 부모님 [uri bumonim] our parents my/our parents
우리 아내 [uri a-ne] our wife my wife
우리 남편 [uri nampyeon] our husband my husband


Korean people often replace ‘한국 [hanguk] (Korea)’ with ‘우리 나라 [uri nara] (our country).’ Also, they refer to their family and parents as ‘우리 가족 [uri gajok] (our family)’ or ‘우리 부모님 [uri bumonim] (our parents),’ not ‘ 나의 가족 [naui gajok] (my family)’ or ‘나의 부모 [naui bumonim] (my parents).’

Perhaps the most famous examples are ‘우리 아내 [uri a-ne] (our wife)’ and ‘우리 남편 [uri nampyeon] (our husband).’ (Oops! Don’t misunderstand: Korea is a monogamous society!)

There’s been a lot of research about why Koreans use the word ‘우리 [uri]’ so frequently, rather than ‘나 [na] (I)’ and ‘나의 [naui] (my).’ Some scholars believe ‘우리 [uri]’ is proof of the group, rather than the individualistic, mentality that dominates in Korea, the result of Korean culture’s emphasis on the whole rather than the individual.

From a linguistic and historical point of view, I tend to agree with the argument. But as there’s no foolproof way to prove this theory, all that matters to you is that you remember this interesting custom as a learner.


Still confused? Let’s think of “royal ‘we’.”
You may know that in British English, the royal “we” is the way a person, usually a ruler, may use a plural personal pronoun to refer to himself or herself. The queen of England is most famous for the usage: “We are not amused,” for example. The phrase suggests that the king or queen is something more than a singular person and the ruler speaks both as an individual and as a representative of his or her people.

Though the reason for the royal “we” is quite different from the reason for Korean’s “우리 [uri],” this still gives you an idea of how a plural pronoun doesn’t always mean precisely “more than one.”




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